Kate's First Birthday

A few hours after Kate was born, it was the middle of the night and the nurses and staff had finally left the room.  (Well, for a few minutes anyway).  :-)  Michael was trying to get what little sleep he could on an uncomfortable couch at the foot of my hospital bed and I was holding a sleeping Kate.  It was dark and quiet but I was totally wired.  The exhaustion would definitely come, (and oh man, does it ever come during those newborn days!) but I had some very special time with my new daughter.  I remember thinking, "I'd better enjoy this because I know that in absolutely no time, she'll be turning one."  And as clichè as it is, UGH, I was right about how dang fast it happens. 

one year later.....

I've said it before, but Kate is such a little sweetheart.  In the last couple months she has developed a bit of spunk and sass, ;-) but it is probably a good thing... especially when you have an older brother that likes to pick on you sometimes.  Ha!

She was born an average-ish height and weight, but is now small for her age.  For a brief time I worried that she maybe wasn't eating enough, but I don't worry anymore.  She's got the cutest baby rolls and definitely doesn't look unhealthy!  :-)  She doesn't walk on her own yet but walks along furniture really well and is getting sturdier and braver.  She still only has two bottom teeth.  Her hair is coming in and growing but it is kinda hard to tell because it is super thin and light.  So thin, in fact, that I still have to use headbands instead of just clipping it back with a bow.  Her hair won't stay in a clip.

Her very favorite word to say is, "Dada!"  It's one of the only things she will say on command, along with a couple animal sounds.  That's okay- it's pretty fitting actually.  Though she loves her mama, she gets completely giddy when Michael is around.  And Michael is already fiercely protective of her.  I worry about her dating life when she's older.  :-)

She has been a nightmarish napper pretty much from the beginning.  However, just a little after she turned 6 months old, she went from waking up twice every single night to waking up ZERO times in the night.  It was glorious.... and ever since the first time she slept through the night, I think I can count on one hand the amount of times she has woken up in the night.  (Though sometimes she struggles to fall asleep).  She has absolutely refused to take more than one (short) nap during the day since she was about 10 months old, so she has a very early bedtime.  And then she usually ends up sleeping about 13 hours straight.  It's a beautiful thing, and it totally makes up for her stinker pants nap habits.  :-)

Kate loves being tickled, playing Peek-a-boo, and reading books.  She has very little, if any, interest in any sort of TV.  She went straight from nursing to the sippy cup.  If she doesn't like her food, she'll immediately start throwing it on the floor.  She enjoys bath time and crawling around at the park.  She thinks Matthew is hilarious and loves following him around and playing with him.  She also loves sugar.  (Duh -what kid doesn't?)

Kate and Matthew are only 17 months apart, and while there are plenty of people who have kids even closer together, there were a lot of people who were surprised by our decision to have kids so close in age.  But let me tell you - both me and Michael knew when it was time to have a second baby.  I was so completely certain that this was what Heavenly Father wanted for our family that I never once doubted our decision.  I am so, so grateful that we were blessed with this girl.  She has brought us so much joy.

There are a million more things I could say about Kate, but for now, I will just say that I love her.  I am so thankful for her patience... especially during her early months when I basically had two babies.  She is sweet and fun and smart and I adore her.

For her birthday, we kept things relatively simple.  She was getting over a cold but still managed to be happy and have a pretty good day.  Michael took the day off work and we visited Butterfly Wonderland.  We all had a blast and loved seeing so many gorgeous butterflies.

After naps we made a quick trip to the park and then had dinner and CAKE!  She was hesitant about her cake at first but after I stuck some in her mouth she caught on.  :-)

 It was a great day.  So excited for her second year of life!

Kate's First Year

My baby girl is one!  So exciting, and also, so sad.  :-(  :-)  Here's a little video of her first year of life.  So grateful for this girl and the huge ray of sunshine she has been in our lives. Love you Kate!  Happy Birthday!

Christmas!

I love Christmas!  And it doesn't get any less magical when you get older.  I love that.  :-)  This whole month has been wonderful and packed of fun Christmas activities.  Is Christmas night depressing to anyone else?  Another whole year until we can do it again!  Boo!  Anyway, I won't harp on depressing things.  Instead, I'll just say that we had a fabulous Christmas and made many good memories.  As a matter of fact, all of 2013 was pretty great.  I'm hoping 2014 is just as good!

Instead of posting 100 pictures, I just threw several of our Christmas pictures into a quick slideshow.  (I'm horrible at them, but hey, they're easy and fun!  And I'm kind of on a slideshow kick.  Next up - Kate's first birthday slideshow!  Whoa!)  The song for this slideshow was chosen because it has pretty much been stuck in my head all month.  Ha!  There are pictures of decorating the tree, looking at lights, wearing festive clothes, visiting Santa, Christmas Eve, and, of course, Christmas.

Byram Family Christmas:

Thanksgiving 2013

This year for Thanksgiving we went to Vegas!  It was our first road trip since about April-ish so I was slightly nervous about how the drive would go with the kiddos.  While they both definitely had their moments, overall I was impressed with how great they did - especially for hardly sleeping in the car AT ALL.  (Seriously, my babies only sleep well in their own beds).  Getting Taco Bell on the way didn't hurt Matthew's feelings either.  Or Michael's.  ;-)

We stayed for a full week with Michael's mom (Kathy) and her husband Don, who were very nice to host us during our stay.  Kathy had to work most of the week so we kept busy seeing family and friends and finding places for Matthew to play in leaves and run wild.  :-)  (Kate mostly explored indoors).

The nice thing about Vegas is that there really are so many people to see.  We miss our friends and family there already.  We also made a quick trip to the Bellagio so the kids could enjoy the garden there.  And enjoy it they did!  I love that Kate is old enough to appreciate stuff like that now.  Well, "appreciate" as in enjoy it.  ;-)  I was kinda hoping they would have the garden all Christmas-y but it was still Fall-y.  Oh well - at least it was still cool!

We spent all of Wednesday and Thursday with my family.  It was so good to be with them.  I so wish we lived closer to cousins and grandparents!  And we really are not even THAT far.  Everyone come move next door to us.  ;-)

Sadie and Kate.  Cousins 2 months apart!  So fun.

Family pic on Thanksgiving

David and Melody Hales family - minus Michael and Laura and their kids!  :-(

The Winder clan - so good to see everyone!  

We then celebrated Thanksgiving with Kathy and Don on Friday.  Kathy is a pro - she made basically all of Thanksgiving dinner herself.  I'd like to say I helped, but I'm not sure it counts when all I did was make green bean casserole..... anyway, the meal was delicious.

Then that night we went to Henderson to some chocolate factory where they have TONS of lights.  The kids were tired from a long week so we didn't stay that long but it was super awesome and totally got me ready for Christmas!

We came home the next day.  And is it just me or is December FLYING by??  Geez!  Better get going on that shopping!  ;-)

Terrible/Terrific Twos

Matthew has been 2 for three months.  During those three months, I think that I have had some of my highest highs with him along with some of my lowest lows.  I was really, really hoping that none of my kids would ever throw a tantrum.  Ha. Hahaha.  Well, surprise surprise, that wish was not granted.  I'll spare you most of the details, but let's be real here.  It's not fun when my toddler throws an absolute fit in the store because I wouldn't buy him a $40 teddy bear or let him knock down a display of slinky's. 

Okay, so maybe I have come to understand where the term "terrible twos" comes from.  But you know what else?  I can't even begin to describe how much FUN he is.  He has always made me laugh, but as he grows, his vocabulary expands, and his personality blossoms, I find myself laughing and/or smiling at something he has said or done at least 100 times a day.  

I've said it before, but I'm going to say it again - he has a heart of GOLD.  He is extremely protective of Kate and even though he gets jealous sometimes, don't you dare mess with his sister.  He loves to run all over the place and play in the sand and the dirt.  He loves reading and learning new sight words.  He asks me for "nandy" (candy) and "bookies" (cookies) several times a day.  He will now plug my nose when I'm singing with him so that I sound funny and then he'll erupt into huge fits of giggles.  He enjoys "helping" me (with anything) any chance he gets.  He likes to explore and learn about new things.  He loves driving by the temple, and I can't wait to take him to the open house in a couple months.  When Michael comes home every evening he RUNS to him to give him a big hug and then immediately requests, "Horse!"  :-)  (Michael knows he'll be turned into a horse within a few seconds of coming home).  When we praise him for something good he has done, he lets out a giddy squeal.  He likes to point out shapes.  He has already asked me for a dog.  (Sorry kid, Dad's allergic!)  When we are about to go up or down the stairs, he'll ask for a "hug" as a way to request being carried up or down.  Manipulative and lazy?  Or funny and adorable?  ;-)  I mostly think it's funny and adorable, especially since he is content with holding my hand if my arms are already full of Kate.  :-)  He is smart and talented and I absolutely love watching him grow.

Matthew, there may be hard days, but I can't even begin to tell you how much I love being your mom.  Thanks for being SO forgiving on the days when I'm not nearly as patient as I should be.  You are the coolest little boy I know!